Double life and another wife!

Cheating husband investigation

Case details:
Probable scenario: Cheating husband in Thailand (Western man and Thai woman).
Client: 45-year-old female, USA – Living in America.
Target: 49-year-old American husband on business trips to Thailand.

Case log: (all names changed to protect privacy)
The client asked us to investigate her 49-year-old husband who she suspected was having an affair with a Thai woman and possibly taking care of her and her two children.

Suspicions: Her husband always turned his phone turned off. She heard another woman’s voice in the background. There were suspicious phone bills at home. She also heard loud music in the background when her husband was supposed to be at dinner with a friend in Bangkok. He flew to Bangkok often for what he said were business trips.

I used the “rich farang in town” approach to make contact with this woman. I met her at Patpong, at a place called Music Bar. It was clear straight away she was on the game. I first called her mobile number (by mistake, of course) and quickly hung up. She called right back and asked who I was. I said I was Michael. She said, “Oh, I remember you”. Huh? That was a real shocker seeing I had never met this woman before, but okay, I played along. Thai bar girls have a hard time remembering all the men they’ve met over the years. Anyway, we met there in Patpong at the place she suggested.

Anything for money

When I met her, she knew she did not know me and said so, but still, she tried to put it on me immediately. She asked me into the bar, and she even bought ME a drink. I talked to her for a while to see if I could get any info on the husband. Then I told her I had to meet a friend and made my exit. I made it clear I was interested in her (supposedly) and wanted to see her later. She called me regularly for the next two days trying to get me to meet her at the bar. I found afterward she worked there.

All the while, I knew the client’s husband was going to arrive in Bangkok the next afternoon. He came the next day, and this woman was at the airport waiting for him. They met each other with a big hug and kiss. After he arrived, she never called again, and when I tried to call her, she did not pick up the phone. He was going to be there for ten days. One night at about 8:00 PM, I called her mobile. She answered it and said, “Husband come now”. I told her that it was okay and asked about his nationality. She said he was from America. Of course, I already knew this.

Cheating husband investigation

I then said I was from America too, and she asked me if I wanted to talk to him, which was perfect. We talked for about ten minutes on the phone, and he invited me to join them for dinner. You can’t get any luckier than this when doing a case. When I arrived for dinner, they were at a fancy seafood restaurant enjoying a huge meal and a pricey bottle of wine. He told me his whole life story (except that he was married to his American wife). However, he did tell me that he was married to “Pung”, a Thai woman.

This man was leading a double life. He already bought her a house, and purchased land for her parents, while also taking care of her two children. He pays for everything. When in Thailand, he lives with her and her kids in the house he bought for them. They were married for three years according to him. I asked him if he had a wife back home too. He said he did not. It was not to difficult to get the information out of him, and he offered it right up, just talking about himself and his life.

Meanwhile, my digital voice recorder was picking up all of the evidence. I had a partner take several photos of them from outside the restaurant. The evidence was clear and complete, and the voice conversation said it all. Another cheating husband investigation is complete. Case closed.

Bangkok Girlfriend Investigation

Hello Man!

Case details:

Probable scenario: Cheating Thai “girlfriend” is it?
Client: 39-year-old male from the UK.
Target: 22-year-old Thai female.

Case log:
The client requested a Bangkok girlfriend investigation. The subject was a 22-year-old Thai girl. She was working at a hotel on Soi 5 and living in Bangkok alone. They spent two weeks together in Bangkok. She told him that she loved him so they became involved in a long-distance relationship. He was sending her 30,000 baht a month and paying for school and her apartment. He was with her for about six months at the time.

Suspicions: Phone turned off, battery dead, complaining about not having enough money. The client was suspicious of her and stated: “She is acting funny lately, she sounds funny also”.


This case was solved by following the girl around only. I picked up her trail at her apartment and that was all I needed to see. It was a ladyboy! Apparently, the client was unaware of this. He did not send a photo as he said he did not have one but described her in detail. Big rack, tall, long straight hair, a beautiful smile, and a dragon tattoo on her left shoulder. Another small butterfly tattoo on her right shoulder. At first, I thought I had the wrong person until I got up close. I confirmed the tattoos and the small scar on her right hand. This was her! Him?

So, clearly, he didn’t know it was a ladyboy! Oh man, how do you tell a guy this? I called him on the phone immediately to break the news. He seemed unaffected and in fact, said he didn’t care and that he loved her. He revealed that he never actually had sex with her (him) when he was here in Bangkok. So, he asked me to continue the investigation to see what she was up to.


Well, unfortunately for him, she was working at a ladyboy bar upstairs at Nana Plaza. I walked by there the next night and she (he) was standing outside trying to grab customers and drag them into the bar. It was a very easy case to solve, unlike most other cases. I was amazed to know the guy had no clue he was in love with a Thai ladyboy! I called him later on and told him the bad news about her working in the bar. He thanked me for doing a good job and hung up the phone. I never heard from him again. Case closed.

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