Thailand on the game. Thai bar girls and freelance prostitutes are common in Thailand (and many other countries). However, Thailand seems to get the lion’s share of publicity. A lot of that publicity is negative. Foreign men are getting ripped off by Thai prostitutes, bar girls, and scammers working on Internet dating sites. It is a very common problem that you must be aware of when you come to Thailand or meet a Thai lady online on a Thai dating website.

“Things come apart so easily when they have been held together with lies.”

While the majority of Thai women you will meet on a Thai dating site will be genuinely innocent and not out to bilk you out of your money, there are a great deal more who are looking to do just that. This happens all the time and many men are duped by sob stories and are manipulated by some very crafty women who know exactly how to push your buttons. There are numerous sources for information on Thailand and the bar girl scene and many of these websites have a vast amount of information that will help you understand some of the problems you might run into when getting involved with a Thai bar girl or prostitute.

Thailand on the game

Thailand on the game.

Thailand on the game

A simple search on Google or Yahoo for “Thai bar girl horror stories” or Thai dating site rip-offs” may yield a significant amount of information that may be useful to the unknowing rookie who has not had much experience in Thailand. There is a lot going on just beneath the surface that many unsuspecting men are totally unaware of and find out only when it is too late. Indeed, you can be sucked into something that is nothing short of a complete nightmare, so it is best to have open eyes when you come to Thailand looking for love.

We can’t cover all the aspects of foreign men coming to Thailand to find the woman of his dreams, but we can tell you that you are very unlikely to find her in the form of a prostitute working in a go-go bar, beer bar, or freelancing as a prostitute in a disco or other nightlife establishment. Unfortunately, this is exactly what many men try to do when they come to Thailand and end up involved in something far more difficult and costly than they had ever imagined, something that could also carry with it serious health risks and financial ruin. So the best thing to do is arm yourself with as much knowledge as you can before you come to Thailand.

She’s on the game

Oh mate… are you kidding me? She is on the game. Have you ever heard anyone say this? What exactly does that mean, “On the game?” Well, in short, it means that the girl in question is a complete player and you are only a target of her game devised to bilk you out of as much money as she can get before you finally catch on and break it off with her. Of course, you aren’t the only one and many of these girls are working over several men at the same time. It has almost become a kind of sport in the bar scene in Thailand and there are more than enough unsuspecting men travelling to Thailand who are completely unaware of it and fall victim to the game. We see it every day and it happens more and more often in recent times. It is of epidemic proportions.

Thai bar girls

Does this mean all Thai ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are very good girls who just don’t really have much of a choice and join up on the bar scene for a short period of time in order to make some money to help take care of the family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar and greed and the influence of hardened bar girls takes them over, then you have a problem. Of course, in most cases, you aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go-go bar, but there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars and ended up getting married, starting families and living happy lives, it’s just that we don’t often hear of that too often these days as we had in the past, times have changed and so has the attitude of many Thai girls who work in bars.

Thai society has gone very materialistic in recent years and the number one source for easy money seems to be in finding a farang (foreigner) to foot the bill for all those expensive things many of today’s Thai people find so important. The newest iPhone, Gucci bag, gaudy gold necklaces, and etc. There are countless cases of men being ripped off by dodgy Thai women and we have seen so many instances of it, but this is what happens if you decide to try and find a meaningful relationship with a Thai prostitute who may, in fact, be a drug addict or just straight up scammer looking to find as much money as she can from as many sources as possible. We have seen cases where a Thai woman had numerous boyfriends, was engaged to more than one man at the same time, and even a few cases where the Thai woman was married to more than one foreign man at the same time with different identities and passports.

Mainstream Thai women

So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Thai lady in a go-go bar because chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you are fascinated with Thai women and want to meet a good Thai lady, try going to regular bars or clubs where normal Thais go, only remember, you will be much better off if you have a Thai friend who can go with you and act as your liaison between other Thai people, and especially good Thai ladies, of which there are many! Just don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a good place to start as there are many Thai women who are fascinated with foreign men and they might go to a good pub to mingle with westerners.

The good

  • Met in a pub popular with Thai people, restaurants, museums, shopping malls, city parks, fitness centres, business contacts, etc.
  • Doesn’t ask you for money, or mention any “problems” right off the bat.
  • Comes from a good Thai family.
  • She has a regular job and is college-educated.
  • Didn’t meet her in a go-go bar, beer bar, or disco known to be frequented by freelance prostitutes.
  • She Doesn’t go to bars and pubs except for the occasional night out.

The bad

  • Met in a go-go bar, disco (Lucifer, CM2, Marine, Spice, Boss) outdoor beer bar, or Soi 7 beer garden.
  • She starts mentioning “problems she has” within the first few hours or days of meeting her.
  • She has a lot of nice clothes, jewellery, gold, expensive top of the line phone, but has no regular job.
  • If she is out in a disco at 4:00 AM on a weeknight.
  • Asks you for money if you have sex.
  • Works in a beer bar, strip club or out in the wee hours of the morning at discos.
  • Seems to be a heavy drinker

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