Thai girlfriend scams. Siam Spy has a long list of cases involving scams that Thai girlfriends and bar girls use. Many difficulties arise when foreign men come to Thailand and get involved with Thai bar girls. Unless they know the culture or how to play the game, problems will occur. For example, Thai girlfriend scams.

We try to determine if the relationship between a Thai girlfriend and a foreign man is genuine. Several factors can determine fact from fiction in our investigative work. There are a wide variety of cases and a tremendous amount of different scams. There also exists a vast diversity of relationships with varying degrees of sincerity and commitment. So, every investigation is unique, as are the circumstances. We never know what we will find once an investigation begins.

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Thai girlfriend scams.

Experienced investigators

We have handled hundreds of cases that have similar relationship criteria. Sometimes interpersonal investigative techniques work best and are most often used. A big concern is that a Thailand Private Investigator is potentially a threat to the substantial cash flow of Thai bar girl scams. So, caution in investigating these cases must always be maintained. You never know what can happen here in Thailand. Hence, a cautious approach is still the best.

The majority of cases we handle require only one Thailand private detective. We do our work using the standard investigative procedure. Meaning, verify, verify, and then verify again. We never outsource or hire Thailand freelance prostitutes to help with a cheating husband investigation, because they are unreliable. They don’t possess the required patience and self-discipline. We also never hire tourists or motorbike taxi drivers to help us with a case, as some others do. Only our team of professional investigators do the work. My Thai wife is one of the best in the business.

Thai bar girl trap

Most Thai girlfriend scams begin with the same clever trap. The story usually starts the same. You’ve just landed on your first trip to Bangkok. It’s hot as hell, and you need something cold to drink. Hmm, a cold beer might be helpful. The first thing you notice when you are walking along the streets of Thailand is all the bars full of hot young Thai girls. You pull up a chair at one of the bars and instantly become a celebrity. Soft skin, dark eyes, long jet black hair, hot little body. You’ve fallen instantly in love.

She’s a young, fun, and beautiful girl, who reluctantly came to town from a farming village in Thailand’s rural northeastern region. She doesn’t want to be there but has no choice. You see, Papa needs an operation. The family buffalo broke a leg and can’t plow the fields. Plus she is just dying to advance her life but needs money for school. And of course, she is miserable.

A convincing story

Now, of course, she’s just the cashier and doesn’t go with customers for sex at all. Not unless she meets an “extraordinary” man. A special man just like you. And then the arrow strikes. You’ve fallen for a Thai bar girl. The next ten days are heaven on earth. You pay her bar fine to keep her off work for the next ten days. Together you travel to the beach and spend your holiday in bliss. Only for it to end far too soon. The tearful goodbye at Suvanabhumi airport is almost too much to handle. But fear not! You’ll be back in six months.

You message and call her as often as you can. You stare at her SMS messages; I miss you too much! However, you can’t wait for your next trip to Thailand to see her again. Every day is a lonely one, a long one. But you get through knowing every day that passes means you’ll soon be with her.

Thai girlfriend scams

Then the scam starts. Out of nowhere, disaster strikes! The family’s buffalo’s leg has healed. But now it is sick. So sick the vet says it might die and the treatment will cost a small fortune. Way more than they can afford! And if that wasn’t enough, Papa had a heart attack! Now he is in the hospital and has no money to pay the bills. The family farm is in grave danger! She’s tried to ask other family members for money. But they are dirt poor too. What will she do?

Help, Superman!

You are her last hope! Without your help, her family will be in a terrible situation! Destitute and no way to turn, she pleads for your help. Like a comic book hero, you spring to the rescue. Farang Bah (stupid foreigner) to the rescue! You copy down her info and head straight to the nearest Western Union office to save the day. Don’t forget the Western Union MTCN number!

Except, of course, that the buffalo isn’t sick. They don’t even own a buffalo. She’s not a cashier either, and she’s probably asking her two or three other foreign “boyfriends” for the same amount of money. She’s perhaps even sitting at the bar right now joking about it with her Thai boyfriend. You remember. Tik, that guy you met with her once or twice, and she said was her cousin? Congratulations! You’ve just joined the club. Does any of this sound familiar to you? It is the trap many foreign men fall into when they come to Thailand. They don’t understand the game, nor do they know what the game is. There is a vast difference between a Thai bar girl prostitute and a Mainstream, proper Thai lady.

Thai bar girls

It is effortless to find a pretty young girl here. The bars are full of them. Most men are aware that paying money for sex is prostitution. However, they forget this when they arrive in Thailand. They somehow overlook the fact they are considering falling in love with a prostitute. The idea is she will quit the bar if he starts sending money to her from abroad. The idea is she stop working in the bar and no more having sex for cash. While it is true some girls will leave, the majority don’t. The foreign man believes her when she says she quit working there. But we often find she still works at the bar and even goes with customers for sex.

She can make more money for the family that way. So, this is what most girls do. The foreign man is usually unaware of this until suspicious behavior begins. For example, the phone is off, loud music is in the background, and other men’s voices are heard on the phone. These are the general suspicions clients describe. The real concern is what is going on in the shadows. Is there already a Thai husband or boyfriend? How many other men is she working at the same time? Are you the only one or are there several others? These details are what we can find out for you with a Thai girlfriend investigation.


This is Thailand, which is a common saying here. Thailand is not like the West. The rule of law is far less than what most Western men are used to in their country. It’s one thing to have your heart broken and lose your hard-earned money. It is another story when the threat of losing your life becomes a reality. It has happened here in Thailand many times. You can land yourself in some serious trouble if you are not careful. For example, in jail or under the threat of severe physical harm.

Most of the problems and safety issues a foreign man will encounter is due to Thai ladies working in bars. These are known as prostitutes in the West. If you live in San Francisco, you aren’t going to go into a prostitution venue in search of a girlfriend. But that is what many foreign men do when they come to Thailand. They go to bars and end up meeting a prostitute who then becomes their girlfriend. Then they wonder why they have problems later. It is simple. If you come to Thailand, don’t look for a girlfriend who works as a prostitute. The majority of them already have a Thai husband, a Thai boyfriend, or both.

90% of girls working in bars in Thailand are of questionable moral standards, and her male friends and associates are also. The “cousin” or “brother” she introduces you to is probably her husband or boyfriend. They are an uneducated rough and crude bunch of folks. They hang out with other similar groups of people like this. Crime, drug use, and addiction are all part of the bar scene lifestyle.

Thai bar girls

Any parent who would push their daughter into prostitution would probably be considered morally corrupt by most people. When you visit the family home of your Thai bar girl sweetheart, keep this in mind. What kind of people are you getting involved with here? On the other hand, some families have no idea their child is working in a bar.

Some other safety issues can arise with foreign men who lose control of their emotions and act out of anger or jealous rage in certain situations. It can be a very costly mistake. In Thailand, the serene man is the winner. His calm and collected way of handling an adverse circumstance can save his life. Those who explode in anger or disrespect can find a bottle broken over their head. They can also find a knife in their back or a bullet in their head in extreme conditions. Cool heads prevail, this is never truer than it is in Thailand. There are plenty of foreign men in Thai jails for murdering or viciously assaulting their Thai girlfriends. It is usually in regard to cases of infidelity or loss or theft of large amounts of money due to Thai girlfriend scams.

Be smart

The overall rule of thumb is this. Never get involved in a serious relationship with a Thai bar girl or a Thailand freelance prostitute. Don’t do business with them, and don’t invest with them by any means. That is the advice of mainstream Thai people. If you want to save yourself a tremendous amount of needless worry and suffering, find a proper Thai girl if you’re going to have a good relationship. You will have a much better experience. You won’t find the girl of your dreams in a go-go bar in Thailand. But most of the time, you will find trouble if you don’t know the game.

Get peace of mind

Hey, we get it. Peace of mind is the bottom line, while privacy is a top priority. It is the reason people contact us; they want to know the truth. There is nothing worse than not knowing the truth. Dark secrets hiding in the shadows isn’t fun for anyone. While it eats away at your peace of mind, it causes endless stress and worries. So, we understand your dilemma. When we take a case, we know what the end game is. It is to give the client peace of mind while resolving the situation with the truth.

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